We surprised the kids with a 3 night stay in our favorite Sunriver cabin rental this past week! The kids were on their Spring break, and Sammy and I had just celebrated our 16th wedding anniversary, so it was perfect timing for a little getaway.
Monday, April 11, 2022
Sunriver Spring Break Getaway
Tuesday, April 5, 2022
16th Wedding Anniversary
Today, Sammy and I have been married for 16 years. That seems like an impossibly long time, yet its gone by in the blink of an eye. As it always seems to.
I am so very proud of the life we have created thus far together. It's not like it's been easy. As with anything in life, there's ups and downs. And people change. I am not the same person I was back then. More than anything over the past few years, I have come to realize this. And neither is Sam. I am no expert, but I think, a lot of the time, that becomes a problem. THE problem. People change. And we're so caught up in the perception of how and who we want our partner to be. We forever want them to be the very person they were when we first met and fell in love.
That's not how life works. We forget it's quite normal to change and mature....physically, mentally, emotionally, and spiritually, throughout the years. No one ever stays the same. No one. And it's so easy to give up, to say you no longer fit together, and to move on. And sometimes, unfortunately, that's the truth, and it is for the best. But you can absolutely grow in self within your relationship. You can support your partner while life changes them. Your partner can support you while life changes you. It just takes understanding, empathy, team work, and a whole lot of love, on both parts. You have to allow your partner to grow and evolve throughout the years, and love them all the while. You have to choose them everyday.
I actually don't know very many people my age who got married young (I was 19) and are still with the person they chose.
So here we are, 3 children and 16 years later. My heart feels so full.
Friday, April 1, 2022
Molly's Volleyball Season
Molly has been loving her time playing volleyball this year! Not only did she play on her school's team this past fall, but she got to play club volleyball all throughout Spring.
I suppose I didn't realize that as the girls get older, they go from playing every position and rotating around the whole court to only playing the positions that they excel at. For example, Molly doesn't enjoy being in the front. Because of her size, it's hard for her to spike the ball over the net or to jump up and stop a ball from coming over the net from the opposing team. So she likes to play the back, and she really excels at that! So she was given the very specific roll of libero. The libero serves as a defensive specialist. She wears a different color jersey and doesn't rotate to the front line.
I managed to get one photo of the team in their normal jerseys before Molly was given her special pink libero jersey.
With love,
















