Many years ago when we rehomed our horse Nik, we knew that one day we would like to own a horse again. Nik was just too much of a horse for us. Too big, too firey, too everything. I didn't feel safe having the kids around him. If you don't feel safe and comfortable with your own horse, it takes all the joy out of owning one. It was absolutely the right decision to rehome him, but it left a horse size hole in our hearts.
Even though owning Nik wasn't the ideal experience, it did teach me a lot. I learned what I didn't want in a horse and exactly what I did want. I developed a strict list of criteria for our future horse, whenever that might be.
Years had gone by with our barn standing empty. Life is busy. It never seemed like the right time. And that was alright.
I don't know what it was about 2020, but I just got this itch to start looking for a horse. Molly and I started saving money and searching. Little by little I would hide my dollars away and scour Dreamhorse.com (along with other sites) for hours, plugging in our list of criteria in the search engines and seeing what was available.
Not much in our price range that fit our criteria, that's for sure. I definitely learned a lot about the current horse market through this process. The horses I did see that fit our criteria I wrote to, but wouldn't you know it, people weren't very keen to write back. I'm not sure if the horses had already sold and they were too lazy to write back and say that and take the post down, or if they just didn't like what I had to say and didn't want to take the time of day to tell me no. Whatever the case, I wrote to no less than 20 people over the course of a few months and only heard back from four. Three were people telling me the horses had sold (and they didn't take the post down....dumb!), and 1 that actually was still available. That correspondence didn't go well though. I made the mistake of asking to barter on the price and then the lady ghosted me. Oh well. Not the type of person I wanted to do business with anyway.
Since I wasn't having much luck writing to people based off their horse posts, I decided to take a different approach and make my own ISO ad on Dreamhorse.com. This gave me the chance to lay it all out and say exactly what I was looking for and what my price range was right off the bat. Then I waited.
About a month ago a lady named Kim text me about a horse she thought would be a perfect fit for us. She was an 8yo 13.2 hand paint named Daizy in Benton City, WA. She was said to be a chill, non-spooky, horse perfect for family life and trail riding. Exactly what we were looking for. She was only being sold because Kim's daughter was in need of a horse with a longer stride to do barrels. We were so excited!! After talking with Kim and getting all the details on Daizy, we decided we liked what we heard and wanted to take the next step and go see her. So that's what Sam, Molly, and I did!
Daizy was the cutest little horse there ever was! She met a lot of our criteria, size and age being two important factors, but also her temperament. She stood so quietly while Molly brushed her. And she listened incredibly well when she was lunged, ridden by the owner's daughter, and then when Molly got on to do a test ride. She certainly was shaping up to be exactly what we were looking for.
I am incredibly thankful to those that have helped make this dream of ours come true. We have gotten a lot of support from family and friends. I honestly wouldn't have been able to make this happen without them. From financial support, to loads of horse advice, I am grateful to those that have been helpful and excited for us through this process and to those that continue to offer support and advice as we get to know and bond with Maizy!
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